by Patrick Lawson | Feb 25, 2026 | Individual Coaching
I’ve been wondering about something.Many successful career men say they’re tired.Tired of the hours.Tired of the politics.Tired of carrying the weight of performance.Tired of living inside a machine that never seems satisfied.And increasingly, I hear the...
by Patrick Lawson | Feb 6, 2026 | Individual Coaching
Focus is widely praised.It is seen as discipline. As maturity. As revered skill.For many, focus has been the means by which life has been built — careers established, families provided for, responsibilities carried.Focus gets results.Focus gets you here.And yet,...
by Patrick Lawson | Jan 29, 2026 | Individual Coaching
I watched a film recently — Jay Kelly, now on Netflix.I won’t tell the story.That’s not the point.What stayed with me was how closely it echoed the conversations I’m having with men in midlife right now — particularly men who, by most...
by Patrick Lawson | Dec 10, 2025 | Individual Coaching, Midlife Leadership
There are moments in a parent’s life when emotion refuses to stay neat and categorised. This past month has been one of them. Both our children have boarded — or are boarding — planes for overseas careers. Not gap-year adventures, but real, adult steps into...
by cameron@ukuyila.design | Dec 4, 2025 | Individual Coaching
The news broke on our cricket WhatsApp group.One message… then another… then another.Robin Smith had passed.The comments were full of respect and heartbreak — but as I read them, something in me cracked open. Because for me, Robin Smith wasn’t...
by cameron@ukuyila.design | Nov 6, 2025 | Individual Coaching
Somewhere along the way, we started believing that only the broken need help.But what if growth isn’t about being fixed — it’s about being found?Even the most successful people reach a point where success itself stops feeling like progress.The...